The Integrated Man project

what the fuck is an ‘integrated’ man? I’ve been thinking about it a lot. In 2014 I ran the first 8 week programs where we journeyed various masculine archetypes (I took the traditional 4 – king, warrior, magician, lover) added 3 more – the beast, the poet and the god....

Maybe

maybe your man is doing his best and despite cultural and tantric dogma what he needs most is to be loved. neither challenged nor coddled. simply seen. As. He. Is. without a filter of need or expectation. without the pull to become the sort of mutated prince charming,...
Twenny Fifteen

Twenny Fifteen

wenny-fifteen In the year of the sheep I stopped following the crowd and entered the tunnel. my heroes journey took place in twilight in caves and caverns of the psyche. I opted out slept late threw my compass into the ocean and let the parking fines fall where they...
The Path

The Path

The Path   There is a path brother.   but the people on TV cant show it to you.   they are as lost as you.    their so-called  life hacks and 10 minute workouts and assumptions about what you  need to do to ‘get to the top’ are as confused and impotent as the men who...
The Patriarchy

The Patriarchy

The Patriarchy they call it a patriarchy but THIS big brother’s never been a father to ME. in fact, in a system that sends fathers to factories, leaving sons to be raised by mothers breaking the line of masculine transmission and wisdom… I’d say its anything...
Sanctity Versus Sleaze

Sanctity Versus Sleaze

orgive my heteronormative perspective But, I AM a MAN and… depending on your point of view that makes me either a worshipper of the divine or a pervert whose line of sight is biologically defined to seek softness and breathe in the beauty of feminine women who radiate...